
I love to sleep! It's one of my most favorite things to do, so I honestly don't mind talking on the subject. I'm an expert at it, really. I do it every night, for several hours at a time. I can't wait to spend hours buried in pillows and blankets. I take it seriously and I really go deep. In fact, I don't really have to think about it. That's the beauty of it, it comes naturally. There are no responsibilities. The only place you have to be is between the sheets.
Sleep is the easiest part of losing weight. No exercise required. The only movement are your eyelids closing and your in and out breathing. That feeling of drifting off, letting your body take you to never land and really knowing it's alright to go into that peaceful place.
So many people don't think sleep is important and don't give it the attention it deserves. I say, practice makes perfect!
I just wanted to let you in on some interesting aspects of the state of sleep, so you might reconsider how you rank sleep with your lifestyle. You might want to slow down and examine those bedsheets a little closer. Here are some under cover, lights out activities that take place, that might give you a reason to want 'snore' sleep.
Just think about it for a moment. All mammals have to sleep. Sooner or later unseen physiological forces coax us into lullaby land. Some creatures require as much as twenty hours a day, like felines. Even newborn human babies sleep 18-20 hours a day. With the epidemic of obesity, insomnia and sleep problems nowadays, a definite link between the two is undeniable.
I must admit I lost some sleep because it was so fascinating to me. Let me show you what I found.
Cortisol
By not getting enough shut eye, the hormone cortisol, which is produced in an area inside the adrenal cortex, increases, which stimulates your appetite and I don't even have to tell you what stuffing down lots of carbs does to your waist line. Now, you may start to understand why you crave carbohydrates. As well, cortisol influences glucose levels which then increases insulin, that leads to greater body fat storage. If that wasn't enough to make you stop and sleep, it lowers your leptin levels, which controls your appetite, or I should say it increases your appetite and you crave carbs again. All of this activity takes place unknown to the average human being, who thinks that by staying awake they get more accomplished and enjoy life to the max!
You are certainly maxing out on life, taking more from your body that will lead to diabetes, heart disease, high blood pressure, thyroid disfunction, and the list goes on!Image Growth Hormone
This important sleep induced hormone regulates fat and muscle cells. The highest growth hormone values occur during your sleep between ten o'clock at night until two o'clock am. It actually allows more muscle growth and repair when you are sleeping.
Circadian Rhythms
We have a circadian rhythm that is perfectly in tune with night and day. Each cell is affected and communicates to all the other cells, to be awake and functioning in the day time and to sleep at night. This 'cell talk' changes at night. It lowers our body temperature so we sleep better, as well as works on damage control from what we have thrown at it throughout the day.
Ever used the expression, I can't think clearly today or my mind is fuzzy? Was it because you had a bad night's sleep?
Sleep is a natural state of bodily rest and we all need a certain amount. 
If someone thinks they can go on 5 or 6 hours of sleep, needs to reevaluate. Your sleep cycle has several phases , which requires a certain amount of time asleep in order to complete the cycle. Each cycle has to have a certain time to go through each phase and they repeat several times during the night. You body requires 7-9 hours to do what it is supposed to do. Let it! If you burn the candle at both ends, it will burn down and then out!
Metabolism
If we don't get enough asleep time our metabolisms heads south. There was a study done by Bonnet and Arend in 2003 about how our bodies burn fats and calories. The study group that slept 7-8 hours had a much higher metabolism than the group who slept less or didn't have normal sleep patterns.
I read that elephants only sleep about 4 hours a night. Now, what does that tell you about how much sleep you need for weight loss? I would be getting more than 4 hours of sleep, that's for sure!
Caffeine and Chocolate
I would never suggest anyone give up chocolate or caffeine. I don't want a boycott on my blog! I'll just say that specific chemicals in caffeine and chocolate interferes with or binds to the same receptors that adenosine, a neurotransmitter which helps us feel fatigued and sleepy. Some people are more sensitive than others, so you need to judge for yourself. That's all I'm saying on that subject.
Melatonin
Melatonin is specifically manufactured by your body for sleep. It is made when trytophan is converted to serotonin and produces melatonin. If the cortisol
levels are too high, then guess what? The tryptophan, serotonin,and melatonin connections won't happen. Melatonin is so important that it has an effect on leptin, which is an appetite controlling hormone related to fat. Together insulin and melatonin regulate leptin at night while you are sleeping to control your appetite. Otherwise, you would be up in the middle of the night breaking your fast, (that's where the word breakfast comes from), raiding the fridge.
Lights Out For Better Sleep
When I go to bed at night, before I lay me down to sleep, I create my dark dungeon for deep sleep. I use a dark colored sheet for my window. I notice drapes, even with blinds, aren't enough to keep out all the light so my body is in total darkness. I do this because it helps keep the melatonin at levels for a good night's sleep. Even if a body part is exposed to light, it will slow down or stop melatonin production. So, seal up any light from a hallway or night light or clock. Just drape with a cloth. You need total darkness for this to work. My husband calls our bedroom 'the cave'.
Now, I have seen 'experts' on sleep say to do something relaxing, like watching tv. or reading in bed. Humm... not so sure about that. You would be awake, right? The lights would be on. Not such a good idea if you want to sleep. However, a white noise, like a fan or a CD of ocean waves, etc., would be perfect, especially if you live near a busy street or are easily disturbed by bumps in the night. If you get up and go for a walk, then you are stopping melatonin production and your sleep cycle is stopped. If you really can't sleep and it's that bad, then get up. You aren't sleeping anyway, right? It happens to the most seasoned sleeper. Just read on about help for that.
De-stressing Before Lights Out
One cup of baking soda and one cup of epsom salts, with a few drops of lavender oil in a hot bath, soak for twenty minutes.
Reading before going to the bedroom would be fine. Try not to read work related material, so you don't lay in bed and think about it. If you can't sleep and you just are tossing and turning, then think about what it is that is keeping you awake. Talk it through. I pray and ask for God to knock me out, literally, and He does it. Whatever it is, I know thinking about it and not sleeping is a horrible feeling. We all do it.
If insomnia seems more like a part of your sleep cycle,(by the way, there was nothing in the sleep cycles about insomnia being part of sleep phases), then just an occasional intruder, then you might want to talk to someone about it. I mean that. It doesn't have to be a psychologist. Just have someone who will listen and not judge you. I tell my clients the same things I am telling you. Sometimes they don't have anyone who will listen, and that's where I come in. It helps to unload and share. I always explore sleep as part of my coaching arsenal. If you do meditation, that would be great. I think just some simple deep breathing if you aren't into yoga type meditation, is perfect. You just breathe in 3,4 or 5 breathes, and slowly exhale twice as many counts, 6, 8 or 10. This gets the parasympathetic nervous system involved, so you really get the tension out of your body and mind. Do this for about 4 or 5 minutes. Put your hand on your abdomen, and focus on how the breaths come out. Make sure your stomach is involved, not just shallow breaths. I often do this while I am in the hot bath with my baking soda, epsom salt, lavender oil soak. It feels so very, very nice. I feel like melted butter. Just pour me into the bed.
Snacks
I would say a carb, small serving, like a graham cracker or 1/2 peace of whole wheat toast, or something like that. It will raise your blood sugar quickly and then it will make you feel drowsy when the sugar drops. Eat it an hour or so before hitting the hay.
Maybe some yogurt or kefir, too. People say milk is good because it contains tryptophan which is a natural tranquilizer, but it doesn't have much, unless you use fermented dairy like yogurt or kefir. If you like to drink milk, then drink it. It would be better than an alcoholic beverage or pop. Also, the traditional chamomille tea has a chemical flavanoid called Apigenin that relaxes the body.
Exercise
Yes, exercise. Not right before bed, though. Exercise releases those feel good endorphins and helps with being tired at the end of the day. I know for myself, if I do something earlier in the day that is out of norm physically, like a new strength training set up or a different hiking route, something that makes my body move differently, I am more tired and ready for bed. Just think about that and try a different way to exercise.
Well... did I put you to sleep or did I wake you up to the facts that you absolutely need a good nights sleep in order to be successful at weight loss. Learn to love it and welcome it. Instead of gaining weight, you will lose weight with your eyes closed, literally! Sweet dreams and sleep tight.
Please feel free to let me know about your sleep tips and 'tragedies'.
I am going to start offering a great nutritional supplement to help with sleep. It helps with the melatonin production pathways, so keep watching.
Wake Up! You Need Sleep To Lose Weight
How to Start Being Healthy
Core Health Coach
Monday, March 3, 2008
Do you look around and wonder why we are so unhealthy? There are so many of us, two thirds of the population that are overweight or obese. Why? How? I have been thinking about this since my last post. Every time I closed my eyes at night or tried to imagine what I could share with you, this subject kept agitating me, haunting me, drawing me to it.
I wanted to approach it in a way that would really matter to you. Why would you want to hear, yet another theory or approach to weight loss or what's wrong with society? So, I am not going to dwell on the negative, but bring some positives into the conversation. I won't throw around a bunch of statistics, or health risks. I think we all are sick of percentages and the next way we can die of unhealthy lifestyles. Let's talk about ways to begin the process of taking back our seemingly insurmountable fight for health and wellness, which inevitably leads to weight loss.
Desire
What you need to remember as well, is your desire to begin. If you lack that willingness to make change, then don't proceed until you are, or else you will once again, be discouraged. It doesn't have to be an overwhelming feeling either. Maybe you just have questions or concerns and need someone to discuss what you are thinking or feeling. Putting things in perspective can quite frequently help you to get off the fence and begin to put your life plan into action. Take as much time as you need. This is for the rest of your life remember. No, you aren't going to be perfect, but you are going to move forward. Don't beat yourself up if you take a step backwards. You just keep moving ahead and remain optimistic. I would urge you to keep talking to someone who can listen. Don't keep it bottled up, or it will actually cause you to continue in your current circumstance.
How
Just a few examples are how we eat. Look at the grocery store aisles. They are lined with cheap prepackaged, processed, chemically laden products . Just grab some frozen meals or some packaged fake food, sealed and kept from rotting on the store shelves with food preservation methods that cannot possibly sustain life. It isn't life sustaining! Look at what we are becoming!
The fast food restaurants remind me of pornography. They invite, tease, excite, stimulate, and what do you get? Addicted! You need ever more and each time you get farther and farther from health and wellness. Fast food is filled with addicting chemicals, both in smell, taste, and sight, while cheapening the price because they don't value nutrition or health. At what price you ask? Us, you, as a healthy, vibrant, productive member of society. What then?
How do you get a hold on you? How do you get away from that addictive urge? Why can't you get motivated and stay motivated and really and truly gain health? The multi-billion dollar companies spend a lot of time and money trying to get you to stay addicted. That's it in a nutshell. Their intent is to make a profit at the expense of 'humans being'. Take a look at the cigarette industry. Need I say more? We are letting the food industry destroy and manipulate our bodies, minds and spirits. They are making our lives cheap, fast and easy. Do you want to understand how to be who and what we were intended to be? Let's begin then.
In order to make changes in your life, you need to know you already have the abilities. They are already within you. Yes, it's true. What you want is a way to understand your abilities and put those attributes into practice, to make changes. Some people can take giant leaps, once they understand, while others of us need to take small incremental steps. Either way is fine, as long as it's your choice and not some company trying to get you to eat their food or do their plan. That sets us all up for failure. Your life is not a diet or someone else's life plan. It's your life and your plan. Always remember that. Let me explain so you can really implement one thing into your life, and start to make your life what you want it to be.
Why
First, I would like to ask you what do you want? Really and truly, if you want to get healthy or even start, you need to ask yourself the question, why am I doing this? Take some time, because this is the root of how you will be making your choices for healthy living. The root is the why and the trunk is, what works for me? Have you accomplished something, like losing weight or finishing a project? Did you have a supportive spouse or did you journal or did you pray? Perhaps you went away on a retreat, or perhaps you need to do one of the above in order to be successful. Have you ever failed, and said if only... When you are truly committed to attaining something, and we are talking about health and wellness, incorporate part of your strategies with one or more if only... Just trying an approach you have not done before often makes a huge difference in your self esteem or success. You made the choice, you chose what works and you implemented it. Become addicted to the goodness in you and see what a difference it can make towards your wellness goals.
Plan
If you smoke and you really can't quit because you have tried, then don't! Instead, concentrate on some other life plan, like nutrition or exercise. When you are ready to stop smoking, you will then see that smoking does not fit your goal of health and wellness. When you see a positive change, more positive changes are on the horizon. It won't be fast and it certainly won't be easy, but as you progress and see the direction you have laid out for yourself, then smoking cessation will just follow naturally, as part of the process. You will have the ability to successfully stop because all the other roadblocks have been taken away and you will have set yourself up for success. When you begin to look at your positives, the bad will always be there, but it won't be the focus. It won't be able to keep you repressed or oppressed. You will begin to see your purpose and your abilities will sustain you up and get you over the hurdles.
Another idea is to ask people what your good points are and use them. Let's say your family and good friends think you are a great cook and you love it, yet you just don't seem to have the time to cook everyday, all day long. Well, if you really enjoy it, pick a day, like Saturday, once a month and cook up a storm. Use pure, fresh, natural foods and freeze them! Wow, we just beat the food companies at their own game. You made the plan and prepared your favorite foods, froze them and now you can eat your own nutritious, pure whole foods, that our bodies crave, harmonize with and were designed to eat. Make it a family day. Have your significant other or your kids make up menus and decide by drawing straws or rotate the menus. Have a couple night and tell each couple to bring a healthy ingredient(s) for pre arranged meals, and make up large portions and split them for each household.
If you don't want to be that grand, make a large crock pot of soup. When I make soup and I am pushed for time, I will throw a free range frozen chicken, whole with some free range chicken broth, some extra bones I have saved and frozen from a previous chicken, whole carrots, or I break them in half, some whole celery, I cut an onion or two in half, some handfuls of organic spinach, organic frozen peas, parsley, sea salt, pepper, fresh garlic, thyme, or if I have something that I need to use up like swiss chard or whatever else I have or want to put in it. I cook it over night and I have several days of delicious, health building, immune boosting, cholesterol lowering, phytonutrient dense meals, made very cheap, quick, and easy. It takes less time than driving to the fast food drive-thru, wasting gas and not being controlled by anyone and sticking to my life plan of health, joy, happiness and giving back to the planet. On a side note, eating whole, unprocessed foods, is good for the environment, as well. Here is a life plan to begin your course of action for the right nutrition on your journey to health and wellness.
What
1. Eat whole, natural foods.
2. Eat grass fed beef, lamb, game, pastured chicken, free range eggs, all fed naturally, no antibiotics, hormones or grain fed.
3. Eat raw dairy, from grass fed cows, including butter, cheeses, etc.
4. I suggest using fermented foods like raw milk yogurt, kefir,( I have a local source), and fermented vegetables and fruits.
5. Healthy fats like extra virgin olive oil, virgin pure coconut oil, raw butter from grass fed cows.( I save my cream from my raw milk and make butter. It is NOT time intensive or difficult) Email me and I can tell you a really easy way to make it.
6. Eat fresh fruit and vegetables, organic if possible. I go to a large discount grocery store which carries a fair variety of organic fruits and veggies. I stay away from expensive items like red peppers or asparagus in the winter. Eat darker colored vegetables and fruits , 5 or more servings daily, lightly steamed, in soup, or raw like a salad or fermented, like kimchi,http://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/233839 . Very easy to prepare. By the way, Corn is NOT a vegetable.
7. Use whole, organic grains sparingly. In our society grain seems to reign supreme. If you notice, a lot of people are diabetic and obese. Too many grains raise insulin levels and lead to disease.
8. I use and suggest stevia, agave nectar, raw honey sparingly, pure grade B maple syrup for sweeteners. DO NOT use any artificial sweeteners! They actually stimulate the appetite and do contribute to obesity and cancer.
9. Prepare soups with bones from beef, lamb, chicken, etc.
10. DO NOT use fluoridated water, especially with babies and children. See video
11. Use sea salt that has a color like pink or gray. It contains trace minerals. I use Celtic sea salt
12. Drink alcohol in moderation
13. Please stop smoking if you do.
14. I make my own salad dressing with extra virgin olive oil, balsamic vinegar or raw vinegar, fresh lemon, garlic, sea salt, and a little Stevia or raw honey for sweetness.
15. Use stainless steel, cast iron or glass for cooking. Use a little non-stick spray instead of teflon.http://www.abc.net.au/health/thepulse/s1576391.htm
16. I would recommend and do use whole food, cold processed, fermented supplements. I would suggest Garden of Life products. You can find them on the web at www.gardenoflife.com or a local health food store.
17. Get plenty of sleep, more in the winter.
18. Exercise in moderation. Our bodies were designed to move. If you are just starting out, you need to go slow and only what you want to do. If you like to walk, then do so. If you like to play basketball, do that. Just move! Enjoy it.
19. Learn stress management. Most of the trips to a doctor are caused by stress. Slow down and enjoy life. Make relaxation and peace and quiet a priority. Go take a nice hot bath with baking soda and epsom salts, while inhaling some lavender essential oil and then go to bed.
20. Make your life your own. Don't get caught up in 'everybody else is doing it syndrome'. Decide to do one small positive change. I am going to discuss this further.
21. Laugh, Love and Forgive.
22. Eat ONE meal a week that you choose, any restaurant.
23. This is for you to fill in_______________________________________________________________.
All of these suggestion will allow your brain, gut and fat cells to harmonize with each other. Most people that are aware of true health and longevity have these same principles and philosophies. Weston A. Price Foundation make these basic suggestions. Dr. Mark Hyman, author of UltraMetabolism, understands the whole person and how that correlates with ultimate health. Just pick 1-3 items from the list above and begin at your own pace.
Traditional doctors are not trained in health and wellness or the steps to attain it. They can write a prescription for a pill or treat a symptom, but the whole person is not part of their education or practice. The patient doesn't usually have a lot of say, either. I don't think it works. It obviously isn't.
Final Thoughts
So, what else can we do? Share your thoughts and plan of action with someone you can trust, like a spouse, significant other or a Health Coach. It is just a suggestion because that is what Health Coaches are trained to do. You pick what works for you. By sharing, you immediately unload, begin to develop strategies, sort out all the obstacles and pick 1-3 objectives. By further developing a plan with time frames for implementation, such as exercising. You decide when you will start, how long you will work out and how many times a week. Discuss this with your trusted person.
Again, a Health Coach can facilitate the answers with you, in an unbiased, non-judgmental arena. I found a great website for finding your inner strengths. It is a quiz that guides you to your greatest character strengths. I would suggest going here, www.authentichappiness.com
To sum up this writing, a question to ask yourself is, what are my gifts, my assets, my positive attributes? Take more time focusing on the positives of your life, and you will begin a shift in the right direction. Use your inner strengths in your every day life, and inevitably you will begin to see the way to your health and wellness. Have gratitude everyday and forgive yourself and others. Set up a time frame for 1-3 changes and check back with your 'coach' to evaluate your progress at a pre arranged date. Nothing is fast, cheap and easy, if it's worthwhile. I think we are all worth it!

